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Our Christmas Looks Different

Each family has their own traditions, their own way of doing things. Mike and I haven't quite mastered traditions in the 12 years we have been married. It's not because we haven't tried - but its more because of lack of finances and Mike's work schedule. Now that we have three kids - things are really out of whack. We have talked to death about what we can do with our kids to make Christmas a magical time for them. What parent doesn't want that for their kids? Somehow pulling it all off is where the trouble lies. Yesterday as I scrolled through Facebook and Instagram pictures of happy families dressed in matching pajamas in front of their Christmas trees, I told Mike that I felt a little bad about not having a picture to post. He reminded me that is not real life - and I get that - but sometimes not real life is totally okay! I appreciate and enjoy looking at my friends' happy Christmas pictures - not because they are pretending they don't have problems...

On the 15th day of Christmas...

On the 15th day of Christmas, my true loves gave to me: 15 temper tantrums 14 trips upstairs 13 doors a’slamming 12 cups in the sink 11 dodged attempts to administer medicine 10 toys to trip over 9 dirty diapers 8 wash cloths torn apart 7 google searches for mystery skin rash (official dx cellulitis) 6 minutes of suspicious quiet 5 snack requests (each) 4 loads of laundry 3 doses of Motrin 2 baths on the same kid in five minutes And 1 ho-ole in the drywallllllllllllllllll Alternative endings: And 1 mom crying in the hall And 1 fistful of poop on the shower wall And 1 trip to Urgent Care (harder to sing that though) This was my day. I wish I was joking.